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...I've got answers:

1.kris said...

A long time ago I read you were bisexual. Having once been on the psych path in majors, this was a subject that fascinated me and my ex husband and I debated about extensively. And, as most people are aware now, there are few in this world that are 100% hetero or homosexual, and that there really is a spectrum to what we are attracted to, etc.

When did you know? Do you feel you lean more in one direction or is it pretty much down the middle? Have you been in a relationship with a woman? And how do you plan to share this part of yourself with your daughter, or explain this aspect of you?


Answer: I have known I was bisexual since I was 7 years old. Yes, 7. Growing up I never just liked boys or girls, always equally liked both & once I hit high school, although I only dated guys back then, I always found the girls just as attractive. Now that I'm 36, I am very secure in who I am and the people I chose to spend time with & I find that although I am still very much Bi, I have only ever 'dated' women, no serious relationships with any as of yet & continue to date men but find it's the guys I have meaningful relationships with. Currently dating a very sweet, very handsome Chinese man named Al (aka:Chan, if I mention Chan, that's who I'm talkin' bout). As far as sharing this with my daughter, ABSOLUTELY! When I feel she's old enough to understand... 4 years old? Not quite there yet.





2. Phyllis said...

Not a real personal question but-- what happened to the rest of your novel?? I still think of you whenever I eat a Nilla wafer!!! (one of my daughter's favorite cookies!)

Answer: My Novel has taken a very long hiatus and although I do plan on finishing it one day, I just haven't been in a mood to do so as of late. I already know how things are going to happen & where the road is about to take Alice & Jess... just can't speculate on that right now & I sincerely apologize to those who were truly getting into it as I'm aware I've let you down... trust me, PROMISE keep reading the blog & one day you'll start to see chapters re-emerge, SCOUTS HONOR! (used to be a girl scout!) hehehe


3. Cindy and Co. said...

Are y'all watching the Olympics???

Answer: Yes, we did watch the opening ceremonies and certain parts of the Olympics, but truth be told, we didn't watch them all. House doesn't clean itself if I'm choosin' to sit in front of the tube all day ya know? And trust me, TiVo is a GOD SEND cuz otherwise I'd be livin' in a trash heap & NEVER seeing ANY of my shows that I love! =)


4. Elyssium Earth said...

You're kidding me?! Floyd, Cohen! You are down, Scarcella!! I in my poor little state have been sorely (and I mean sorely) deprived of internet access. This sorry situation is about to be remedied permanently. HELLS YEAH.

If we're layin' out cards then I guess I've always wanted to know how you found the money for your 'doption?? Did you save for like, ever? or get a little help from the famed Nonna and Nonno?

Answer: I saved money from Nannying but obviously, even the contents of my 'life savings' wasn't enough so I made extra money by doing phone sex at night. Was bringing in $200/hr. And for those of you thinking "OMG WHY ISN'T SHE STILL DOING THAT, THAT'S GOOD MONEY!?$#$" There's the issue of a short cute set of impressionable ears about & I'd really rather not explain THAT to her. LOL Bisexual, sure... phone sex? NOT SO MUCH!

I guess I have a really good 'phone voice'. Now, not that I've talked naughty to any of you but for those of you who HAVE talked to me on the phone, you can attest to the voice, yes? LOL