Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Getting To Know You...


Ah, Momma? I don't recall this 'Nappie' being built for TWO?


Baby Tom-Tom: "Huh? You talkin' to me?"


"Oh My Goodness Momma, can't a girl & her Bear get some alone time around here?"



Monday, February 12, 2007

Happy As A Pig In Poop...


...& already comfortable enough to 'steal/borrow' one of Ruby's "friends", Dog.

Hell, she wasn't loving him, somebody should, right?
hehehe

Sunday, February 11, 2007

& He Shall Be Called...

..."Baby Tom-Tom".

At least that's what Ruby's taken to calling him...

...yes, that's right, I'm referring to the newest little 'charge' in my life,
my little 4 month old friend who is due to join us in our day to day activities starting
first thing tomorrow morning!

Long story short, I found an adorable ad on CL & called expressing my interest. (Thurs)
Got a return call the very next day & met the family that night. (Fri)
They not only met myself & Ruby but they also met;
my mother, my father, my babies: Emma, Abi & Sam AND THEIR Mom Jen!
To say that my humble little apartment was filled to capacity
is an understatement to say the least!

But all's well that ends well, as before the visit was over, baby 'Tom-Tom's' father smiled & looked at me & said:
"I'm sold, you're just what we were looking for.
The job is yours if you're interested, we'd like you to start this Monday..."
(two days away & more to the point, TOMORROW!)

GOOD LORD!

Yes, I'll take the job!
Yes Ruby loves her new friend 'Baby Tom-Tom'!
Yes, they're the friendliest people ever!
Yes, it's so neat to think of having a little 4 month old friend in our midst!
YES I NOW HAVE STEADY INCOME AND CAN EXHALE...

...FINALLY!


So, our little friend will be dropped off every morning & picked up every night, Mon - Fri for a very full week, (approx 8am - 8pm) BUT, I welcome the change & the challenge.
Why?
Because it's what I do, I'm a Nanny, & two babies for that many hours is old hat to me... as I've watched upwards of 3 babies for longer than that before.

Bring on the two & BRING ON THE JOB!
Honestly, where else in the world can you do something you LOVE from the comfort of your OWN HOME for GOOD MONEY while STILL being awarded the BLESSING of BEING WITH YOUR OWN CHILD?
Find me another job like mine & we'll talk... until then?
I'm the luckiest Nanny/Momma this side of Bean Town!

Thank you to everyone who sent up a prayer on our behalf,
who sent good vibes our way,
who were more than generous in many ways
& the most important way being through their friendship!

I may not know much, but I do know this;

Ruby & I are both very lucky girls.

And on that note, I am off to get a good night's sleep, I have to get up for WORK in the am!
*smiling*

Who knew that saying that sentence would produce such a smile on my face...?

hehehehe
*wink*




Friday, February 09, 2007

One Call To China...



...one contented little girl.


(...let's not forget one SPOILED ROTTEN BEAR!)
hehehehe

In A Word: AMAZING!

Why you ask?
Two reasons...

1. I got a new nanny job today & start first thing Monday morning
~and~
2. Tonight, Ruby & I called China.
She spoke to her foster mother, & her foster mother spoke back in Chinese.
Ruby said 'Ni Hao' & her foster mother was raw with emotion.
I just let the two of them 'talk'...

...then my friend Ning who was online at the time, IMed me to say:

"Ning: she is very happy
Ning: she said that u let ruby said will remember her in heart forever"

(which I'm guessing means that my letting Ruby call her tonight to talk to her & let her hear Ruby's voice & vice versa, is something she will remember in her heart forever...)

You know, it's funny... even though I didn't understand much of what she was saying, I do know a mother's love when I hear it.
Regardless of language, or time difference, or miles between us... that woman loves my little girl, OUR little girl, and it was just amazing to hear her chatting away & Ruby holding the phone not only listening, but stopping to occasionally kiss the phone
& say "Ni Hao" and "zai jian"

Simply amazing.

God is good, we thank him for BOTH of his extraordinary blessings tonight,
we are humbled by it all.
*more details to come of the job later, I'm too spent tonight to get into it any further...
...4 kids under 5 in my house, I'm in need of some TiVo & some Zzz's.

G'NIGHT!

Love This...

As children we're taught to play nice;
share your toys,
eat your vegetables
&
if you don't have anything nice to say - don't say it at all.

But every time we bite our own tongues,
we know each other a little less.
To spare some one's feelings,
we hide our own.

And when you hide what you feel,
you end up with regrets.

Being honest might not make you the most popular girl in the schoolyard,
but it will earn you respect...
...and when nice girls learn to respect themselves,
they'll always finish first.

A Much Needed Sleepover...


...my babies, Emma, Abi & Sam are coming over to spend the night with Ruby!
She's going to be SO THRILLED!!!!
We recently watched some old video footage of when I took all 4 of the kids to Salem Willows last year, and Ruby has NOT STOPPED TALKING ABOUT THEM since then!
They LOVE coming over to Nanny's house for a fun party sleepover (it's what they call it) and Ruby loves having them sleeping on her bedroom floor.
Let's hope that this means that tonight's sleeping is going to be restful & peaceful for all.

A Momma can dream...

(more later once the kids arrive...)

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Sleeping Update...

Nap today: 1:30pm - 4:00pm.
Woke up wanting to 'snuggle Momma', which we did...
had a wake to attend so I had her dinner prepared, sat her in front of it with her Nonno beside her, told her;
"Ruby, Momma has to go to the store, ok baby? I'll be back soon... Momma loves you!"
*hugs & kisses*
Everyone good to go.
Nonno's happy, Ruby's happy & Momma's content to leave without a screaming child but still sad to go & pay my final respects to an amazing woman, my dear Jen's Nan.
Nan, I loved you as my own Nan & I'll never forget you.
(Enjoy the white out!)

Ok, back to the day... return from the wake shortly after five'ish & Ruby's happily playing with her Nonno & was joined by her Nannie too.
The three of them happy as pigs in a puddle, bonus!

More hugs & kisses, grandparents boogie & Ruby & Momma go back to 'snuggle Momma' time,
have some Italian chicken egg noodle soup with garlic bread for dinner.
*sorry, no recipe for this one yet, someday... just not tonight*
Some couch time snuggling,
some hugging & kissing,
some hand holding,
some bear smooching,
some story telling,
some giggling,
some bed time stories
&
then off to bed she went at 8:30pm.

Crying, wailing, screaming, begging, choking, pleading episode until shortly losing steam at around 9pm.
(15 minutes longer than my usual 15 minute rule & by far THE HARDEST THING I'VE EVER HAD TO DO... listen to her cries of 'MOMMAAAAAAAAAA SNUUUUUGGGGGGGLEEEEEEEEEEEE PWEEEEEEASSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!")

I sat quietly in the dark of my living room
&
cried.
I prayed for the strength to let her cry it out tonight without caving.
Thank you God for granting me that ability tonight.
My daughter is STILL *knocking on wood* sound asleep in her crib peacefully dreaming of hopefully ANYTHING other than nightmarish quality stuff,
&
has with her currently THREE BEARS!
*don't ask, that's a post for another day*
I did one thing different tonight, well two actually.
1. I have dimmers throughout the house, in every room, so tonight I took advantage of that & left her room light on enough so that the room is not dark at all.
In fact, if she wakes up, she'll be able to see just fine.
I'm pretty sure it's the 'afraid of the dark' stuff that's truly getting to her,
so no more dark baby, Momma says 'LET THERE BE LIGHT!'
Honestly, a slightly higher electric bill is worth it's weight in RISOTTO
if it means I'll be getting a full uninterrupted night's sleep, correct?
&
2. Until I have her back on a normal sleeping schedule,
my usual 15 minute rule has been bumped up to 30 minutes,
& this Momma anticipates going through just a bit more tissue than usual.

*...and for the record, that pic of her from last night, with the puffy face, the drenched hair and the sad eyes, breaks my heart every time. I can no longer look at it without crying myself.
I love this little girl so much & if you can't look to your mother for unconditional love & understanding, than WHO? I could sit here all night & type all the things I 'could'a should'a would'a, but the reality is... you live for a day.
Yesterday's gone, tomorrow hasn't come yet, it's just today.
So, today... I did alright.*


Todays Nap Brought To You By:


'Day terrors'?
& the 15 minute rule...


...poor thing is drenched from the tears & the crying
but GOD BLESS THE 15 MINUTE RULE,
not sure why today,
BUT IT WORKED-
&
this Momma got a herself a much needed lengthy hot shower!

If only I could nap as well, sadly, I have a wake to attend at 4pm.
Nan, may you rest in peace & not to worry, I'm bringing the white out!
*teary smile*


*YaWn*


Another day, another chance to get this 'parenting' thing right,
but first a yawn or two for both of us, perhaps even Bear.

NO.



No she isn't cute in this picture.
No she didn't just take a bath, that's soaking wet hair from her tears.
No that isn't a weird looking smile she's sharing.
No she isn't sleeping at all.
No she isn't in her OWN CRIB, but MY FUCKING BED!
No she has NO IDEA that she's up SCREAMING IN TERROR that she's:
FALLING!
SCARED!
HELP!
MOMMA!
DARK!
etc...

No it isn't easy being a SINGLE PARENT to a TODDLER w/NIGHT TERRORS !
No I still haven't found a fucking job yet which I suppose is just as well because who the hell can get up & function after LITERALLY being UP ALL NIGHT with a child who is ABSOLUTELY FUCKING CONVINCED THAT SHE'S FALLING & ABOUT TO DIE A HORRIBLE TERRIBLE DEATH OF A THOUSAND DEATHS!
No I have barely any patience left with this child tonight.
No I haven't stopped loving her, but tonight, I don't have to like her behavior.
No, I'm not happy with myself that I can't be a better parent.
No, I'm not thrilled with knowing that she's stuck with only ME as her parent.
No, I don't think it's entirely fair that she is going to be an only child of an only parent, it makes me sad.
No, I don't think life is always fair, but then again nor does anyone else I'm guessing.
No, I don't like having to give myself my shot
& immediately experience those FLU LIKE SYMPTOMS
& NOT be able to curl up in bed & attempt to sleep through them.
NO, tonight I won't rest, but rather will LIE AWAKE & PLOW THROUGH THEM AS THE SINGLE SOLDIER PARENT THAT I AM, THAT I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO BE!
No, I am not proud of myself for losing my patience with her tonight
& letting her cry it out in my bed.
No, I do NOT condone 'co-sleeping'.
No, I do NOT like breaking my OWN RULES,
but I DO need some FUCKING SLEEP AT SOME POINT,
SO WHERE DO YOU DRAW THE GOD DAMNED LINE?
NO I DON'T WANT TO GET IN THIS AWFUL HABIT OF SHARING MY BED WITH HER,
I DON'T LIKE IT ONE BIT!
No, I am not a moron, I UNDERSTAND that these NIGHT TERRORS aren't forever,
HOWEVER, I DO know that the longer I allow my own FUCKING RULES to be
BROKEN, that the HARDER IT'S GOING TO BE TO GET BACK TO SOME SEMBLANCE OF NORMALCY AROUND HERE!
No, I don't always like being a single parent.
No, I won't get any rest tonight.
No, please don't comment... just let my vent be what it is, just a vent.
No, I'm not going to rave all night, my post is done.
No, I'm not going to say goodnight, because that is clearly what I am NOT going to be having.
NO!

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Various Photos...*

...of my beautiful girl.


*I am aware that it's 'Tuesdays with Uncle Steve' night, however we had leftover chicken vegetable stew... so if you want the recipe, in the top left hand corner of the blog, in the window where it says 'search this blog' type in; "Just because I was in the mood..."
& ENJOY!


Evil Comes In Many Forms...

...in our house, it takes the form of this mouse:



(See?!?)

In other homes, perhaps evil arrives in the form of a short Guatemalan girl
& her obnoxious talking backpack & boot wearing monkey:



In still others, it's this fuzzy red guy who I've PERSONALLY had NIGHTMARES about:

In even others, it's these rainbow colored shirt wearing grown Australian men who are not only obsessed with 'big red cars' but
who better still, live in a house that talks from it's stove right down to the front door:

And lest we forget this little bit-o-evil who apparently is related to,
twice removed on his father's side- Backpack girl
& swings through the jungle listening to voices from a camera named 'click'
who bears the voice of probably one of
THE MOST OBNOXIOUS ACTRESSES ON THE PLANET!


Girl, even in 'WHITE MEN CAN'T JUMP' you didn't do much for me,
you certainly aren't scoring higher with the general public
by hiding behind a cartoon camera lens!

So my question to all of you, is...

WHAT FORM DOES EVIL TAKE IN YOUR HOMES?!?

*disclaimer: I am fully aware of the joy these characters bring to the children of our lives, HOWEVER I am also very aware of the RIVER DANCE OF PAIN
they each are capable of doing on every parents LAST NERVE!
To say that some days I want nothing more than to throw myself bodily
from my second story apartment, would be an understatement of
GINORMOUS PROPORTIONS!
A mom's allowed to vent!
PERIOD!

Last One, I Promise...


Bear --

[adjective]:

Fuzzy to the touch



'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

I'm speechless...


R.I.H.O.T. Loyal Readers... --

[adjective]:

Benevolent to a fault



'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

Heh, heh...


Ruby In Her Own Time... --

[noun]:

A person of questionable sanity who starts their own cult



'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

So, So True...


Ruby Cate --

[adjective]:

Visually addictive



'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

Again, I Digress...


mom4ruby --

[noun]:

A master of storytelling



'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

Monday, February 05, 2007

When In Doubt...

...eBay!

Ok, so I still can't find a job to speak of, HOWEVER, I DO have lots of really cute Ruby things that she's either never worn that still have the tags on them OR that she's gently worn & are ready to be worn by another cute little girl somewhere...

SO, I have recently tried my luck listing a few things & we'll see how they do but I've not really sold much on eBay ever, usually am the one buying gifts for Ruby, family & friends to be honest, so this selling is a whole new ball game.

Wish me luck & LET'S PLAY BALL!

Here are the items I've listed:
(To view these items on ebay, search by seller id & enter: Amyla72)

Baby Gap Newborn Stage 1 Lined Dress W/Sweater:


NWT 18mo. .fefe' wool sweater & skirt set:


NWOT Polly & Friends denim dress size 2T:


Precious sweater set with matching shirt & pants 24mo:

NWOT 24mo Denim floral jacket:


NWOT 18mo 'Baby Nay' black velvet Christmas/party dress:



If these sell, then I'll be listing more cute Ruby items
that she's either outgrown or never got a chance to wear.

WISH ME LUCK!!!

Sunday, February 04, 2007

Mirror, Mirror...








...hey that's my NOSE!

Saturday, February 03, 2007

Ah, Sweet Dreams...


...& even SWEETER dreams when I'm breakin' the rules & snoozin' in MOMMA'S BED!
(I can't help it, it's just so toasty!)

"Happy Now Momma..."

Ruby & I were watching our China video this morning all curled up in my bed together & it's always at the part where it's our 'gotcha' moment & 'Baby Ruby' is crying.
Hard & constant crying I might add.

After being handed my daughter, I made my way up to my hotel room & proceeded to peel off 8million layers of hot thick clothing & attempt to calm her down.
I finally did so with the help of allot of patience, some silly 'nanny' tactics
and one little see through block with a kitty & a ball of yarn inside it.

I rocked that block back & forth making a 'meow meow meow' little song up as I went & at precisely minute # 45, my little miss Ruby smiled at me for the very first time.
An honest to goodness smile.

It's at this point in the video that Ruby always smiles...

...only this time, that smile was followed with these words:

"Happy now Momma, baby Ruby happy now!"

I cried.

Yes sweetie, baby Ruby is happy now
&
so is her Momma.


Just Because I Was In The Mood...

...I give you:

Chicken Vegetable Stew!

Ingredients:


1 lb boneless chicken breast (cut into bite size pieces)
2 cans cream of chicken soup
6 celery stalks chopped
pkg baby carrots chopped
6-7 red bliss potatoes (chopped into bite size pieces)
1/2 stick butter
2 lg Spanish onions chopped
4 cloves garlic chopped
fresh ground pepper
ground thyme (few shakes)
8 cups chicken stock
all purpose flour (two hand fulls)
mixed frozen veggies
1/2 box ditalini pasta
1/2 cup whole milk

Directions:


Melt butter in large soup pot



& saute all at once, onions, garlic & celery, fresh ground pepper & ground thyme until celery starts to become transparent.



Once that happens, add chicken & cook for about 8-10 minutes...



then add hand fulls of flour to create a roux.


Once thick, add stock



& all the veggies & mix well.



Then add both cans of cream of chicken soup & again mix well.


Lower the heat, cover & allow to simmer until it reaches a low rolling boil.


Once potato's are fork tender, you may add your pasta (raw) & it'll cook within the stew in about 10-15 minutes.

Once pasta is cooked, take pot off the heat & allow to sit for at least ten minutes before serving.



Serve with fresh loaf of garlic bread & freshly grated parmegiano regianno cheese to top.

ENJOY!



Inch By Inch...


...one year of growth has crept by!

I started recording Ruby's height on a little 'non functional' space on my living room wall.
You'll notice that the first time I did this was Groundhog Day, 2006.
(2-2-06)
I don't recall why we didn't start this upon our immediate arrival home, but my best guess would be that settling into a whole new life, a whole new routine, a whole new set of 'baby' rules left me worrying about more important things than a mark on my wall.
So, for whatever reason, Groundhog day it was & I wanted to mark the 'one year anniversary' of pissing off my father by drawing on the wall with her most recent recorded height.

MAN has she GROWN!

A little over FIVE INCHES to be exact!

The sad part about this wall is that someday, my kid, with the long legs & the taller than average build, is going to COMPLETELY TRUMP MY SHORT ASS
which only comes up to a sad 5'4''.
That's MY GIRL!
Nearly 36" of GORGEOUS!