Thursday, August 31, 2006

Practice makes (almost) perfect...

Me: "Ok Ruby, we really should practice taking that picture of you holding your special framed referral pics... "


Ruby: "Ugh, Momma do I have toooo?!"


Me: " C'mon sweetie this won't take but a minute, I'm going to do it again on your actual birthday because that's a special day to BOTH of us! You cuz it's your birthday, Me cuz it's the anniversary of the day I got 'the call' and saw your pretty face for the first time!"




Ruby: (... not paying attention to much of anything aside from trying to figure out a way to get the ladybug pin off the picture frame.)


Me: "Ok Ruby, you just hold this here ok? Just for a minute... there you go honey!"


Ruby: (at first throws her arms out to the side (her sign for 'all done') then grabs the frame, ignoring me & continues to try & remove said ladybug pin... & sadly getting better at her attempts!)
"Sure thing Momma, whatever... just don't pay any attention to the fact that I'm totally gonna swipe this pin right off this thing!"


Me: "C'mon Ruby, just hold this picture for a minute so Momma can take a pic ok?"


Ruby: "A-HA! I GOT IT!" (picture frame now ripped in the corner where the PIN used to be!)


Me: "Awww RUBY!" (carefully taking pin out of my daughter's hand so she doesn't stab herself!)



Ruby: "I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS ANYMORE!"


Me: "Ok honey, I know this isn't fun for you but Momma really wants just one cute shot of you holding your pictures... and you're even wearing your cute yellow sweatsuit which was the first outfit I ever put on you while in China..."



Ruby: "Ugh, hurry up cuz Bear and I have things we have to work on in the playroom!"


Me: "YIPPEE!! There you go Ruby! You sat still like a good girl! LOOK HOW PRETTY YOU LOOK HONEY! Awww Momma loves you baby girl!"


Ruby: "Are we done yet? Can I leave, please?..."


Ahhh, the joys of a HEADSTRONG toddler!


Wednesday, August 30, 2006

I just CAN'T believe...

... it's August 30th ALREADY!

Where the hell did the time go?

Where the hell did the summer go?

Not that it really matters much since I'm not a big fan of summer anyways.
FALL is my FAVORITE TIME OF YEAR HANDS DOWN!


Followed closely by WINTER!


*yes I LOVE snow!*

Although my dad says: "that's because you're not the one out there shoveling it!"
Not so daddy-O, when I lived in my last place, the only snowblower was YOURS TRULY and & it didn't run on gas!
*just the occasional hot cocoa with marshmallows please!*

It's amazing to me that I'm merely days away from what will not only be the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of 'GOT'CHA DAY' but RUBY'S 2ND BIRTHDAY!
Unbelieveable!

I'm going to do my best to put together a photo timeline of little Miss Ruby Rubes having one photo for each month since they first handed her to me.
Stay tuned...

Oh, and to all those families who just recently received their referrals:
CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERYONE!

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

MAN DO I LOVE REFERRALS!


It is with much joy & great pleasure that I am pleased to share with you all the face of an angel!
My friends Tricia & Jonathan's precious daughter:

ESTHER LIAN NICOLE!




Chinese Name: Wang Ling Lian
(meaning: Exquisite or delicate lotus)


date of birth: january 29, 2006

currently residing in: yujiang,

yuijiang district swi, Jiangxi Province

height as of june: 22.95 inches

weight as of june: 12.3 lbs

a few facts about our little princess:

© she can hold her head up

© identify strangers

© identify where sounds are coming from

Click HERE to follow their Journey to bring Esther Home!!!

Monday, August 28, 2006

Playing is serious business...


... especially JUST before bedtime!

Leave it to my friend the Librarian...


... to find THIS article to send to me. LOL
She's right when she said " You just can't MAKE this stuff UP!" hahaha!
TOO FUNNY!

Woman crashes when teaching dog to drive

BEIJING --A woman in Hohhot, the capital of north China's Inner Mongolia region, crashed her car while giving her dog a driving lesson, the official Xinhua News Agency said Monday.

No injuries were reported although both vehicles were slightly damaged, it said.

The woman, identified only be her surname, Li, said her dog "was fond of crouching on the steering wheel and often watched her drive," according to Xinhua.

"She thought she would let the dog 'have a try' while she operated the accelerator and brake," the report said. "They did not make it far before crashing into an oncoming car."

Xinhua did not say what kind of dog or vehicles were involved but Li paid for repairs.


Sunday, August 27, 2006

CALLING ALL COOKS!


Ok, so I have MANY FAITHFUL readers of Ruby In Her Own Time... and it's all too evident that not only are all of you wonderful people, but you're good hearted as well.
It's also apparent that you ALL ADORE A GOOD RECIPE!
*grin*
Cus I know that everytime I make something new & delicious, Godforbid I don't post the recipe along with the photos, you people are all over me like white on rice!
(pardon the expression)
hehehe

Anyhoo, with THAT said, I am calling on ALL MY READERS, public readers, lurkers, EVERY ONE OF YOU to step up to the plate & help out a dear friend of mine who is desperate to try & beat the Chinese 'no more singles' decree they're putting into effect as of Dec 1st.
She's got only 3 months to put together her dossier where as last time she had 7.
She's crazy determined & won't accept ANY hand outs!
*trust me, I've TRIED!*
SO, she's selling these adorable Cook Books (<---- click me) in order to try & raise the money needed to get her paperchase over & done with so as to be one of the last singles before it's too late. Her daughter Arianna is just precious & would very much like a MeiMei from China and I know that if we all each ordered just ONE cookbook, that it would help TREMENDOUSLY! I just remember all too well how it felt when it was me who was in a bind financially and ALL OF YOU stepped up to the plate to help me & the support was OVERWHELMING! I am beyond blessed to have such a faithful following & am asking you all again to step up once more, but this time for my dear friend Katherine. I have already put my order in for one cookbook & hope that you will too! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! LET'S HELP KATHERINE BRING HOME ARIANNA'S MEI MEI!
*smiles*

Saturday, August 26, 2006

I just LOVE shopping...

... with OTHER PEOPLE'S MONEY!
hee hee
My friend Karen gave me some dough to spend on bows for her sweet little princess pea and after getting one of every color in the freakin' store, I still had plenty left over to hook her up with TWO Casa Clips AND a funky pair of earrings that just SCREAM hippy chick!
(sorry babe, but you KNOW you are!)
*grin*

Everything's on it's way & should arrive tuesday!

ENJOY!

Friday, August 25, 2006

Nobody likes a rumor...


Earlier today I heard from a good friend of mine the following news...

The CCAA will no longer approve adoption applicants who:

-are older than 45
-single
-do not have some college degree
-have a history of any major illness
-have a history of any arrest
-are extremely obese
-have more than 3 children living in the home



Upon hearing this I decided to give my agency a call to give them the chance
to either confirm or deny the alligations.

I'm sad to report that they were indeed confirmed & it appears that the announcement will be made on Dec 1st of this year. I'm sad for all those wonderful single women out there who had their hearts set on China, unfortunately, unless you're already LID or are well into the paperchase with hopes of being LID on or before Dec 1st, it may not happen for you.

My heart is broken.

Not necessarily for myself, because I was pretty sure that I wasn't going to adopt again,
but it is kinda disheartening to know that the 'option' of changing my mind,
is no longer an option. It's just sad...

Gotta LOVE a REFERRAL!!!


It gives me GREAT PLEASURE to introduce to everyone my friend Christi's beautiful little girl:


Dong Zhuo Zhuo
DOB April 20, 2005
Yangdong SWI
Guangdong Province
Height 70cm
Weight 8.5 kilos
Moderate sleeper, shy and quiet, can be obstinate.
She is close to her caretaker and other children in the orphanage. She was brought there the day after she was born.

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE NEWEST & PROUDEST MOMMY IN BLOGLAND!
You know what this means right? OTHER REFERRALS ARE SOON TO FOLLOW SO ALL YOU WAITING FAMILIES COUNTING DOWN THE MINUTES, YOUR HOUR HAS FINALLY COME! CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL!!!

*big teary smile*

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Gorgeous...


... simply gorgeous!
A HUGE THANK YOU to Auntie Karen
for taking such a BREATHTAKING photo of my little girl.
It's amazing to me the talent you posess as a photographer!
Thank you for sharing it with us!

Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Fun With Matty...


... first of all, can I just start this post by saying that my friend Matty ROCKS because tonight he NOT ONLY went with Ruby & I grocery shopping, BUT HE ALSO came back home with us, helped me INTO THE HOUSE with ALL the bags & then stayed to have a few laughs after I put miss Cheeks to bed. He's a riot!
He makes me smile when I need a good pick me up, and he's always been there for me whenever I needed him. (and he's cute too so that never hurts!)


(Matty says he digs my new shampoo... hehehe)


(but that's no reason to slobber your snot all over me buddy!)

(and now he's trying to lick it off... ewwwww)


(once I stop laughing I'm so going to get a tissue!)


( yes Matty, I love you too my friend, you're a good egg, now can I go get a tissue please?)


(and you're not letting go of my hand... this is akward.)

(and more kissing...
I knew I should've bought that pocket pack of tissues at Market Basket!)

(Aww, you know I'm just kidding buddy, you can help me with my groceries any day!)

hehehehe

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Funny is as Bored does! (*update*)

Ok, so tonight Karen & I were chatting on the phone & she mentioned to me THIS website she found that turns anything you want into an ad slogan... so without further ado, I give you my favorite slogans of:

(*first of all, I THOUGHT it would make links to the SPECIFIC slogans I fell in love with, it turns out IT DOESN'T! So it's a crap shoot as to what you're gonna get, AND the following, even though they're JUST WHITE TEXT, are HYPERLINKS, you may click on them all. Don't ask me why the one above turned out black, I'm ok with HTML, not a genius though... but working on it every day!*)

RUBY CATE

BEAR

RUBY'S MOMMA

EBENEZER

UNCLE STEVE

AUNTIE KAREN

GWEN

SERIOUSLY SO FUNNY I'M STILL LAUGHING! GIVE IT A GO EVERYONE!
(Just don't have a drink in your mouth!)

Calling all lurkers... ( *'s = claimed their fame )

... the following are just 'some' of the recent visitors I've had to the blog. Just curious who is willing to claim their corner of the world... any brave takers? *grin*

1. Belchertown, Massachusetts (a very frequent visitor with multiple daily visits)
2. Mount Sinai, New York
3. Macon, Missouri
4. Montague, Michigan
5. Mountain View, California

*6. Olds, Iowa


7. Basile, Louisiana
8. Richmond, Virginia

*9. Edinburgh, City Of Edinburgh Scotland

10. Sewickley, Pennsylvania
11. Athens, Alabama
12. Baltimore, Maryland
13. Niagara Falls, Ontario

*14. Corning, New York


15. Englewood, Colorado
16. Myrtle Beach, South Carolina ( always wanted to visit there! )
17. Northbrook, Illinois
18. Villmergen, Aargau Switzerland
19. Pico Rivera, California
20. Suncook, New Hampshire
21. Wallingford, Connecticut
22. Campbell, Victoria Austrailia
23. Smyrna, Tennessee
24. Beijing, China
25. Hiram, Georgia
26. Portland, Oregon

*27. Edmonton, Alberta Canada


*28. Dallas, Texas

29. New Delh, Delhi India
30. Aylmer, Quebec Canada
31. Kinarut, Sabah Malaysia
32. Mulhouse, Alsace France
33. Shanghai, China
34. Placitas, New Mexico

*35. Salt Lake City, Utah


Ok, that's just a taste of the people from all over the world who frequent Ruby In Her Own Time... and you enjoy hearing from me, so it's your turn now to allow me to enjoy hearing from YOU!
Thanks!

Life before Ruby...

... it's hard to imagine my life without my beautiful little girl in it, but oddly enough there was a time before she brightened my world with her smile.

It's funny how something as obscure as an email can bring old memories rushing back as if they happened only yesterday.
This morning, I received a 'virtual kiss' from someone on a dating site that I had joined that was specifically for singles & their animal friends.
I had COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN that I had made a profile for that site a couple years ago.
So, curious to see what it was I had written... I pulled up the old profile & this is what I read:


I am a:




single 34 yr old woman
located in:

Hamilton Massachusetts United States
my ethnicity:

caucasian

religion:

spiritual
I have:

blue eyes

hair:

black
body type:

cuddly

have (human) kids:

0
food:

chocolate diet

drinking:

non drinker
smoking:

no smoking at all

star sign:

no answer
height:

5'2''-5'6'' (157cm-169cm)
occupation:

self-employed
education:

some college
languages:

english (fluent), italian (some)
sports and exercise:

sailing/boating/windsurfing

swimming
walking/hiking/camping

water sports
weights/machines

yoga/meditation
my interests:

arts/crafts

astrology/new age
bird watching

cards/boardgames
computers/internet

cooking
dining out

diy
gardening/landscaping

movies/cinema/videos/tv
museums/galleries/art

music - rock
nature

shopping/antiques
video games

watching sports
more about me:

I'm a single girl in my early 30's and my best friend in the world is my 8 year old English Cocker Spaniel Ebenezer. Did I mention he's handsome? =) I am one of those silly people who loves my dog more than myself I think and anything I can do that can include him is something worth doing. =) I work as a professional Nanny and love my job as well. Unfortunately working close to 55 hours a week doesn't lend Ebby and I much free time to get out & meet others & their pals as well. I would just love to find some people who are local to me within reason to get together to let the dogs play or go for a walk or maybe even just head over to PETCO together for an afternoon. If you're interested, I'd love to hear from you! =)

About My Pet(s)

Pet(s):

dog
Name(s):

Ebenezer
low down on my
pet(s):

Ebenezer, or Ebby as I lovingly call him, is an 8 year old AKC English Cocker who is just as handsome as can be. He's red with big beautiful brown eyes and a fantastic disposition. He's amazing around children because my work as a professional Nanny has afforded me the luxury of raising him in their company so he loves them to pieces & is very gentle & sweet!
my pet(s) would
describe me as:

If Ebby could talk he'd say I was the best Momma in the world. He is spoiled beyond belief and I always make sure that he gets whatever it is his little heart desires. He might say that he wished that we had more 'friends with doggies' though, thus, why we're here! =) Are you that new friend we've been waiting for?

About My Date


I am a woman seeking a man age 30 to 37
for:

activity partner

casual dates
friendship

relationship
romance

my ideal date:

Someone with a great sense of humor who is honest & confident and comfortable in their own skin without being too cocky. A non smoker who enjoys the simple things life has to offer & includes their best friend every step of the way.

About My Pet's Date

My pet(s) is seeking a:

dog
for:

casual

hanging out in the park/beach
long walks

roll in the hay/grass
romance

treat and a conversation
my pet's ideal date:

Ebenezer loves to meet other friendly dogs to hang out with and enjoy the outdoors with. He is very good at sharing his cookies and water bowl and will even let you enjoy a scratch or two from his Momma, but just remember that she's his. He loves going for very long crazy walks to leave his mark on EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING in sight, which means ten million stops along the way, turning what would otherwise be a 5 minute walk around the block into an EVENT WORTHY OF AN ENTIRE AFTERNOON AND SEVERAL WATER BOTTLES!

Reading that brought back so many memories of my beautiful boy... it made me smile from ear to ear & filled my eyes with loving tears for the loss of my best friend.
He truly was my soul mate, he just was alot shorter &amp; fuzzier than I had imagined he'd be.
;)
And now Ruby's home with me & she is my soul mate for life... I know she wouldn't mind sharing that spot with mister Ebby, she still walks around the house, sees pictures of him & throws her head back in true Ebby style & howls in his honor.
Two soulmates in one lifetime? I'd say I'm pretty damn lucky!
I love you both SO MUCH Ruby & Ebenezer, always & forever.


*Oh, and I didn't respond to the gentleman who sent me the virtual kiss...
I just didn't have the heart to tell him that my fuzzy friend wasn't with me anymore.
*sigh*
=*(

Monday, August 21, 2006

IT'S ABOUT TIME!!!

ForEVER now it seems I've been waiting & wondering WHEN THOSE GENIUSES at BATH & BODY WORKS would REALIZE that we women NEEDED to be able to buy YUMMY SMELLING



SHAMPOOS <--- CLICK ME

AND



CLICK ME ---> CONDITIONERS!!!

This is just evil news, because now not only am I going to smell yummy,
BUT SO WILL MY HAIR!
hee hee
*evilgrin*
My next date should be VERY interesting... to say the LEAST!

They were on sale 2 for $10- which isn't a bad price at ALL!
So you KNOW I brought home four bottles!
hehehe

BRING ON MY MORNING SHOWER!

Things I wish I knew...

I don't know if I've ever mentioned this before but my child is completely sensitive to sounds.
Not just any sounds, but specifically LARGE MACHINERY!
A lawnmower, a drill, a power saw, a power sander, street crews working outside the house, the vaccuum, the washer & dryer, the dishwasher... you name it!

If it's electric & makes a noise, she's TERRIFIED!
Not just worried, or cautious acting- but downright FRIGHTENED!
She'll run screaming to me from wherever it is she's at in the house & throw herself into my arms, shaking until the sound STOPS!

It just makes me wonder, why is it that she'd be afraid of such things?
Her paperwork says she was found at 2 days old at the front entrance of an emergency help center, although her finding ad says a 'salvage center'.
Which one was accurate? I'll never know...

Were these places LOUD? Were her cries muffled & unheard because of those sounds?
Was she subsequently not found as fast as she could've been had it not been for the noise?
Did her birth mother immediately abandon her moments after giving birth as her paperwork says her umbilical chord was still attached? Perhaps the drama & noises surrounding the birth, abandonment & ultimate finding place all rolled into one was too much for my little girl to handle.

It breaks my heart that there are things that I notice about her that I've never noticed in any other child I've had the pleasure of caring for over the past 16 years.
Her little life didn't start out as theirs... she wasn't held & kissed & loving looked after from the moment of her birth.

Sure her birth mother could've held her, I just can't imagine her NOT holding her baby, if only for a brief time to hug her, kiss her & tell her how sorry she was for what she was about to do. I'm sure it was the hardest thing she's ever done in her life... and I've got to believe that not a day goes by that she doesn't wonder what happened to her baby.
So, for all the 'unanswered questions' I have about her past, her birthmother probably has just as many about her future & will have them till the day she dies.
Each of us with unanswered questions, each of us having to learn to live life without those answers, each of us loving a little girl in our own way, each of us 'mother'.

I can't imagine being in her shoes, not even for a moment because before I ever saw Ruby in person, after only seeing pictures of her, I know that I never could've walked away from her, ever.
I know that the situation in China is far different than here in the states... but desperation is desperation, regardless of where on the map one calls 'home'.
When I was in china & I asked about her finding place & got the run around.
Nobody seemed to want to answer me.
I did get alot of:
"No, she ok, it ok, you not worry..."
etc...

I didn't really think that someone would just sit down & say,
" Ok well here's the deal..."
and give me all the details of that day she was found, but man would it be nice.
I just know it would answer alot of questions I have on certain behaviors she displays concerning things like those sounds.

I know it's something I will probably never know, so I have to just let go of that urgency to find out & surrender it to the universe & try my best to move on, for both mine & my daughter's sake. I hope her birthmother can find a way to move on as well & I hope she knows in her heart that her baby, now my little girl, is safe & happy in the world, with a Momma who couldn't be prouder... even if I have to wait till she's sound asleep to run the dishwasher, do the laundry and vaccuum the living room. It's a very small sacrafice for one very sweet little girl who holds the biggest piece of my heart.
I love you Ruby Cate!

But it sure would be nice... where's a working time machine when you need one?!


Ebenezer's Rose...


... is ALMOST as beautiful to me as he was.
I miss you Ebby, every minute of every day pal.
XoXoXo

Tea for three...


... with a side of toes, please.
*smile*

Sunday, August 20, 2006

Maybe I'll take up dance lessons...


... you ever reach a point in your life where you feel like you've 'stalled' your engine?
Taken a wrong turn & now find yourself staring at a dead end?
No, this isn't about my beautiful Ruby, she's about the only thing RIGHT I've ever done in my life, make no mistake about that.

I'm talking about when I was younger, I had visions of where my life might take me & where I might 'be standing' at age 30.
I mean, don't we all have those 'day dreamy' fascinations of where we might be in ten years? twenty?
Well, I'm pretty sure it was 7th or 8th grade, one of my girlfriends asked me where I thought I'd be when I was 30. My first response was 'UGH, WHO CARES, we'll just be OLD then...!" After that tid bit of kid fear about growing up, I do believe my answer to her was something along the lines of, "Oh, who knows, but I DO KNOW I'll be married to a great guy, with a big beautiful house with a fenced in yard & at least one child or one on the way... etc. *cough/bullshit/cough*

Well, as I sit here & type, I'm a 34 year old single mother to probably one of the most stunningly beautiful children I've ever laid eyes on. Her spirit shines like a rainbow after a storm & her laugh is infectious.
I am blessed to call myself her mother... but what about her 'father'?
Is there someone out there for me? For us?

In 8th grade I was 'POSITIVE' that 'he' was out there & I'd meet him eventually.
Funny how as children we just assume that everything will work itself out eventually.
Now, rather than being the happy 'wife' to mister 'so&so', living in a big beautiful home with a fenced in yard & that child or one on the way... I'm the happy single mother to the sweetest little short person I've ever met and instead of a house, I live in a cozy little two bedroom apartment that I rent from my parents.
Funny, just how things don't always end up the way you had thought they would.

I still have hope though, that 8th grader's spirit still lives in me & she still believes that the 'one' is out there somewhere, but she just yelled at me tonight & said " if you don't ever leave the house you'll never meet him you know, he isn't gonna just show up on the front porch!"

You ever get yelled at by your younger self? Your inner child?
It's not fun!
You think that I'M loud, man, you should meet the KID Amy, SHE'S WORSE!
(just ask my Mother!)
hee hee

So I was thinking that I might take up dancing lessons. It'll be good exercise, it would get me out of the house, hopefully weekly, and maybe, JUST maybe, I might meet someone nice.

I dunno, it's not a done deal yet but it's definitely something I'm tossing around in my head. Any thoughts?

(now, if any of you have a cute single brother/cousin/friend/nephew/uncle/brother-in-law/ etc, FOR GOD SAKES, WHY HAVEN'T YOU SENT PHOTOS YET PEOPLE?!)
*grin*
ALWAYS accepting applications... cuz you never can tell what's around the corner.


Saturday, August 19, 2006

The power of prayer...


... I'll be the first to admit that I'm not very religious, but I am spiritual.
That said, I would like to call upon each & every one of you who read my blog. Regardless of religion or creed, please find it in your heart, this very moment upon reading these words, to keep a very dear friend of mine in your prayers...

... they are much needed tonight & for the next few days.

Thank you all in advance for taking a moment to do this for my dear friend.

I won't go into detail, but once we're out of the woods, I will be sure to update & let everyone know that the prayers & well wishes were worth the minute or two it took to send them her way.
From the bottom of our hearts, Ruby & I thank you all!

-Amy & Ruby Cate
XoXoXoXo

The Shower...

Ever have one of those showers where right when you feel like you could stand under that hot water for the rest of your life & never get out,
the water pressure shits the bed & diminishes down to a sad little trickle.

UGH!

I was seriously considering changing my address to 'steaming hot shower', Boston MA.

I really could've lived in there, maybe not forever, but AT LEAST FOR TODAY!

Oh well, now I'm clean & cold & about to do the whole
Bath & Body Works routine...



I recently was told I smelled 'yummy' & 'delicious'...
hee hee nothing wrong with hearing THAT once in a while!
Plan on hearing it again in the very near future...
*grin*

Small World...

So I was checking my stats counter & noticed that, just this morning,
I had TWO hits from China!
One from Taizhou, Jiangsu & another from Beijing!
Made me realize what a small world we live in if people from so many miles away can peek into the world of this single Momma & her precious Ruby.
Whoever you are in China, PLEASE feel free to leave a comment next time you visit!
We'd really love to hear from you!

So then I started thinking about everything China & clicked on the 'information' link that my counter provides for every location that's visited & the following is what I saw... pretty staggering some of those numbers but just makes you appreciate all the more the process that led you to your destiny. Of all those people & of all the babies, I was blessed with Ruby and I could not be happier!





Background: For centuries China stood as a leading civilization, outpacing the rest of the world in the arts and sciences, but in the 19th and early 20th centuries, the country was beset by civil unrest, major famines, military defeats, and foreign occupation. After World War II, the Communists under MAO Zedong established an autocratic socialist system that, while ensuring China's sovereignty, imposed strict controls over everyday life and cost the lives of tens of millions of people. After 1978, his successor DENG Xiaoping and other leaders focused on market-oriented economic development and by 2000 output had quadrupled. For much of the population, living standards have improved dramatically and the room for personal choice has expanded, yet political controls remain tight.

Geography Top
Location: Eastern Asia, bordering the East China Sea, Korea Bay, Yellow Sea, and South China Sea, between North Korea and Vietnam

Geographic coordinates: 35 00 N, 105 00 E

Map references: Asia

Area: total: 9,596,960 sq km
land: 9,326,410 sq km
water: 270,550 sq km

Area - comparative: slightly smaller than the US

Land boundaries: total: 22,117 km
border countries: Afghanistan 76 km, Bhutan 470 km, Burma 2,185 km, India 3,380 km, Kazakhstan 1,533 km, North Korea 1,416 km, Kyrgyzstan 858 km, Laos 423 km, Mongolia 4,677 km, Nepal 1,236 km, Pakistan 523 km, Russia (northeast) 3,605 km, Russia (northwest) 40 km, Tajikistan 414 km, Vietnam 1,281 km
regional borders: Hong Kong 30 km, Macau 0.34 km

Coastline: 14,500 km

Maritime claims: territorial sea: 12 nm
contiguous zone: 24 nm
exclusive economic zone: 200 nm
continental shelf: 200 nm or to the edge of the continental margin

Climate: extremely diverse; tropical in south to subarctic in north

Terrain: mostly mountains, high plateaus, deserts in west; plains, deltas, and hills in east

Elevation extremes: lowest point: Turpan Pendi -154 m
highest point: Mount Everest 8,850 m

Natural resources: coal, iron ore, petroleum, natural gas, mercury, tin, tungsten, antimony, manganese, molybdenum, vanadium, magnetite, aluminum, lead, zinc, uranium, hydropower potential (world's largest)

Land use: arable land: 15.4%
permanent crops: 1.25%
other: 83.35% (2001)

Irrigated land: 525,800 sq km (1998 est.)

Natural hazards: frequent typhoons (about five per year along southern and eastern coasts); damaging floods; tsunamis; earthquakes; droughts; land subsidence

Environment - current issues: air pollution (greenhouse gases, sulfur dioxide particulates) from reliance on coal produces acid rain; water shortages, particularly in the north; water pollution from untreated wastes; deforestation; estimated loss of one-fifth of agricultural land since 1949 to soil erosion and economic development; desertification; trade in endangered species

Environment - international agreements: party to: Antarctic-Environmental Protocol, Antarctic Treaty, Biodiversity, Climate Change, Climate Change-Kyoto Protocol, Desertification, Endangered Species, Hazardous Wastes, Law of the Sea, Marine Dumping, Ozone Layer Protection, Ship Pollution, Tropical Timber 83, Tropical Timber 94, Wetlands, Whaling
signed, but not ratified: none of the selected agreements

Geography - note: world's fourth largest country (after Russia, Canada, and US); Mount Everest on the border with Nepal is the world's tallest peak

People Top
Population: 1,306,313,812 (July 2005 est.)

Age structure: 0-14 years: 21.4% (male 148,134,928/female 131,045,415)
15-64 years: 71% (male 477,182,072/female 450,664,933)
65 years and over: 7.6% (male 47,400,282/female 51,886,182) (2005 est.)

Median age: total: 32.26 years
male: 31.87 years
female: 32.67 years (2005 est.)

Population growth rate: 0.58% (2005 est.)

Birth rate: 13.14 births/1,000 population (2005 est.)

Death rate: 6.94 deaths/1,000 population (2005 est.)

Net migration rate: -0.4 migrant(s)/1,000 population (2005 est.)

Sex ratio: at birth: 1.12 male(s)/female
under 15 years: 1.13 male(s)/female
15-64 years: 1.06 male(s)/female
65 years and over: 0.91 male(s)/female
total population: 1.06 male(s)/female (2005 est.)

Infant mortality rate: total: 24.18 deaths/1,000 live births
male: 21.21 deaths/1,000 live births
female: 27.5 deaths/1,000 live births (2005 est.)

Life expectancy at birth: total population: 72.27 years
male: 70.65 years
female: 74.09 years (2005 est.)

Total fertility rate: 1.72 children born/woman (2005 est.)

HIV/AIDS - adult prevalence rate: 0.1% (2003 est.)

HIV/AIDS - people living with HIV/AIDS: 840,000 (2003 est.)

HIV/AIDS - deaths: 44,000 (2003 est.)

Nationality: noun: Chinese (singular and plural)
adjective: Chinese

Ethnic groups: Han Chinese 91.9%, Zhuang, Uygur, Hui, Yi, Tibetan, Miao, Manchu, Mongol, Buyi, Korean, and other nationalities 8.1%

Religions: Daoist (Taoist), Buddhist, Muslim 1%-2%, Christian 3%-4%
note: officially atheist (2002 est.)

Languages: Standard Chinese or Mandarin (Putonghua, based on the Beijing dialect), Yue (Cantonese), Wu (Shanghaiese), Minbei (Fuzhou), Minnan (Hokkien-Taiwanese), Xiang, Gan, Hakka dialects, minority languages (see Ethnic groups entry)

Literacy: definition: age 15 and over can read and write
total population: 90.9%
male: 95.1%
female: 86.5% (2002)

Government Top
Country name: conventional long form: People's Republic of China
conventional short form: China
local long form: Zhonghua Renmin Gongheguo
local short form: Zhong Guo
abbreviation: PRC

Government type: Communist state

Capital: Beijing

Administrative divisions: 23 provinces (sheng, singular and plural), 5 autonomous regions (zizhiqu, singular and plural), and 4 municipalities (shi, singular and plural)
: provinces: Anhui, Fujian, Gansu, Guangdong, Guizhou, Hainan, Hebei, Heilongjiang, Henan, Hubei, Hunan, Jiangsu, Jiangxi, Jilin, Liaoning, Qinghai, Shaanxi, Shandong, Shanxi, Sichuan, Yunnan, Zhejiang
: autonomous regions: Guangxi, Nei Mongol, Ningxia, Xinjiang, Xizang (Tibet)
: municipalities: Beijing, Chongqing, Shanghai, Tianjin
note: China considers Taiwan its 23rd province; see separate entries for the special administrative regions of Hong Kong and Macau

Independence: 221 BC (unification under the Qin or Ch'in Dynasty); 1 January 1912 (Manchu Dynasty replaced by a Republic); 1 October 1949 (People's Republic established)

National holiday: Anniversary of the Founding of the People's Republic of China, 1 October (1949)

Constitution: most recent promulgation 4 December 1982

Legal system: a complex amalgam of custom and statute, largely criminal law; rudimentary civil code in effect since 1 January 1987; new legal codes in effect since 1 January 1980; continuing efforts are being made to improve civil, administrative, criminal, and commercial law

Suffrage: 18 years of age; universal

Executive branch: chief of state: President HU Jintao (since 15 March 2003) and Vice President ZENG Qinghong (since 15 March 2003)
head of government: Premier WEN Jiabao (since 16 March 2003); Vice Premiers HUANG Ju (since 17 March 2003), WU Yi (17 March 2003), ZENG Peiyan (since 17 March 2003), and HUI Liangyu (since 17 March 2003)
cabinet: State Council appointed by the National People's Congress (NPC)
elections: president and vice president elected by the National People's Congress for five-year terms; elections last held 15-17 March 2003 (next to be held mid-March 2008); premier nominated by the president, confirmed by the National People's Congress
election results: HU Jintao elected president by the Tenth National People's Congress with a total of 2,937 votes (four delegates voted against him, four abstained, and 38 did not vote); ZENG Qinghong elected vice president by the Tenth National People's Congress with a total of 2,578 votes (177 delegates voted against him, 190 abstained, and 38 did not vote); two seats were vacant

Legislative branch: unicameral National People's Congress or Quanguo Renmin Daibiao Dahui (2,985 seats; members elected by municipal, regional, and provincial people's congresses to serve five-year terms)
elections: last held December 2002-February 2003 (next to be held late 2007-February 2008)
election results: percent of vote - NA%; seats - NA

Judicial branch: Supreme People's Court (judges appointed by the National People's Congress); Local Peoples Courts (comprise higher, intermediate and local courts); Special Peoples Courts (primarily military, maritime, and railway transport courts)

Political parties and leaders: Chinese Communist Party or CCP [HU Jintao, General Secretary of the Central Committee]; eight registered small parties controlled by CCP

Political pressure groups and leaders: no substantial political opposition groups exist, although the government has identified the Falungong spiritual movement and the China Democracy Party as subversive groups

International organization participation: AfDB, APEC, APT, ARF, AsDB, ASEAN (dialogue partner), BIS, CDB, FAO, G-77, IAEA, IBRD, ICAO, ICC, ICRM, IDA, IFAD, IFC, IFRCS, IHO, ILO, IMF, IMO, Interpol, IOC, IOM (observer), ISO, ITU, LAIA (observer), MIGA, MONUC, NAM (observer), NSG, OAS (observer), ONUB, OPCW, PCA, SCO, UN, UN Security Council, UNAMSIL, UNCTAD, UNESCO, UNHCR, UNIDO, UNITAR, UNMEE, UNMIL, UNMOVIC, UNOCI, UNTSO, UPU, WCO, WHO, WIPO, WMO, WToO, WTO, ZC

Flag description: red with a large yellow five-pointed star and four smaller yellow five-pointed stars (arranged in a vertical arc toward the middle of the flag) in the upper hoist-side corner

Economy Top
Economy - overview: In late 1978 the Chinese leadership began moving the economy from a sluggish, inefficient, Soviet-style centrally planned economy to a more market-oriented system. Whereas the system operates within a political framework of strict Communist control, the economic influence of non-state organizations and individual citizens has been steadily increasing. The authorities switched to a system of household and village responsibility in agriculture in place of the old collectivization, increased the authority of local officials and plant managers in industry, permitted a wide variety of small-scale enterprises in services and light manufacturing, and opened the economy to increased foreign trade and investment. The result has been a quadrupling of GDP since 1978. Measured on a purchasing power parity (PPP) basis, China in 2004 stood as the second-largest economy in the world after the US, although in per capita terms the country is still poor. Agriculture and industry have posted major gains especially in coastal areas near Hong Kong and opposite Taiwan and in Shanghai, where foreign investment has helped spur output of both domestic and export goods. The leadership, however, often has experienced - as a result of its hybrid system - the worst results of socialism (bureaucracy and lassitude) and of capitalism (growing income disparities and rising unemployment). China thus has periodically backtracked, retightening central controls at intervals. The government has struggled to (a) sustain adequate jobs growth for tens of millions of workers laid off from state-owned enterprises, migrants, and new entrants to the work force; (b) reduce corruption and other economic crimes; and (c) keep afloat the large state-owned enterprises, many of which had been shielded from competition by subsidies and had been losing the ability to pay full wages and pensions. From 100 to 150 million surplus rural workers are adrift between the villages and the cities, many subsisting through part-time, low-paying jobs. Popular resistance, changes in central policy, and loss of authority by rural cadres have weakened China's population control program, which is essential to maintaining long-term growth in living standards. At the same time, one demographic consequence of the "one child" policy is that China is now one of the most rapidly aging countries in the world. Another long-term threat to growth is the deterioration in the environment - notably air pollution, soil erosion, and the steady fall of the water table especially in the north. China continues to lose arable land because of erosion and economic development. As part of its effort to gradually slow the rapid economic growth seen in 2004, Beijing says it will reduce somewhat its spending on infrastructure in 2005, while continuing to focus on poverty relief and through rural tax reform. Accession to the World Trade Organization helps strengthen its ability to maintain strong growth rates but at the same time puts additional pressure on the hybrid system of strong political controls and growing market influences. China has benefited from a huge expansion in computer Internet use, with 94 million users at the end of 2004. Foreign investment remains a strong element in China's remarkable economic growth. Shortages of electric power and raw materials may affect industrial output in 2005. More power generating capacity is scheduled to come on line in 2006. In its rivalry with India as an economic power, China has a lead in the absorption of technology, the rising prominence in world trade, and the alleviation of poverty; India has one important advantage in its relative mastery of the English language, but the number of competent Chinese English-speakers is growing rapidly.

GDP: purchasing power parity - $7.262 trillion (2004 est.)

GDP - real growth rate: 9.1% (official data) (2004 est.)

GDP - per capita: purchasing power parity - $5,600 (2004 est.)

GDP - composition by sector: agriculture: 13.8%
industry and construction: 52.9%
services: 33.3% (2004 est.)

Labor force: 760.8 million (2003)

Labor force - by occupation: agriculture 49%, industry 22%, services 29% (2003 est.)

Unemployment rate: 9.8% in urban areas; substantial unemployment and underemployment in rural areas; an official Chinese journal estimated overall unemployment (including rural areas) for 2003 at 20% (2004 est.)

Population below poverty line: 10% (2001 est.)

Household income or consumption by percentage share: lowest 10%: 2.4%
highest 10%: 30.4% (1998)

Distribution of family income - Gini index: 44 (2002)

Inflation rate (consumer prices): 4.1% (2004 est.)

Investment (gross fixed): 46% of GDP (2004 est.)

Budget: revenues: $317.9 billion
expenditures: $348.9 billion, including capital expenditures of NA (2004 est.)

Public debt: 31.4% of GDP (2004 est.)

Agriculture - products: rice, wheat, potatoes, corn, peanuts, tea, millet, barley, apples, cotton, oilseed, pork, fish

Industries: mining and ore processing, iron, steel, aluminum, and other metals; coal; machine building; armaments; textiles and apparel; petroleum; cement; chemicals; fertilizers; consumer products, including footwear, toys, and electronics; food processing; transportation equipment, including automobiles, rail cars and locomotives, ships, and aircraft; telecommunications equipment, commercial space launch vehicles and satellites

Industrial production growth rate: 17.1% (2004 est.)

Electricity - production: 1.91 trillion kWh (2003)

Electricity - production by source: fossil fuel: 80.2%
hydro: 18.5%
nuclear: 1.2%
other: 0.1% (2001)

Electricity - consumption: 1.63 trillion kWh (2003)

Electricity - exports: 10.38 billion kWh (2002)

Electricity - imports: 2.3 billion kWh (2002)

Oil - production: 3.392 million bbl/day (2003 est.)

Oil - consumption: 4.956 million bbl/day (2002 est.)

Oil - exports: 427,800 bbl/day (2002)

Oil - imports: 2.414 million bbl/day (2002)

Oil - proved reserves: 17.74 billion bbl (2004 est.)

Natural gas - production: 35 billion cu m (2003 est.)

Natural gas - consumption: 29.18 billion cu m (2002 est.)

Natural gas - exports: 0 cu m (2002 est.)

Natural gas - imports: 0 cu m (2002 est.)

Natural gas - proved reserves: 2.23 trillion cu m (2004)

Current account balance: $30.32 billion (2004 est.)

Exports: $583.1 billion f.o.b. (2004 est.)

Exports - commodities: machinery and equipment, plastics, optical and medical equipment, iron and steel

Exports - partners: US 22.8%, Hong Kong 16.2%, Japan 12.4%, South Korea 4.4%, Germany 4% (2004)

Imports: $552.4 billion f.o.b. (2004 est.)

Imports - commodities: machinery and equipment, oil and mineral fuels, plastics, optical and medical equipment, organic chemicals, iron and steel

Imports - partners: Japan 16.1%, Taiwan 10.9%, South Korea 10.4%, US 7.7%, Hong Kong 7.4%, Germany 5.4% (2004)

Reserves of foreign exchange and gold: $609.9 billion (2004 est.)

Debt - external: $233.3 billion (3rd quarter 2004 est.)

Currency (code): yuan (CNY)
note:: also referred to as the Renminbi (RMB)

Currency code: CNY

Exchange rates: yuan per US dollar - 8.2768 (2004), 8.277 (2003), 8.277 (2002), 8.2771 (2001), 8.2785 (2000)

Fiscal year: calendar year

Communications Top
Telephones - main lines in use: 263 million (2003)

Telephones - mobile cellular: 269 million (2003)

Telephone system: general assessment: domestic and international services are increasingly available for private use; unevenly distributed domestic system serves principal cities, industrial centers, and many towns
domestic: interprovincial fiber-optic trunk lines and cellular telephone systems have been installed; a domestic satellite system with 55 earth stations is in place
international: country code - 86; satellite earth stations - 5 Intelsat (4 Pacific Ocean and 1 Indian Ocean), 1 Intersputnik (Indian Ocean region) and 1 Inmarsat (Pacific and Indian Ocean regions); several international fiber-optic links to Japan, South Korea, Hong Kong, Russia, and Germany (2000)

Radio broadcast stations: AM 369, FM 259, shortwave 45 (1998)

Radios: 417 million (1997)

Television broadcast stations: 3,240 (of which 209 are operated by China Central Television, 31 are provincial TV stations and nearly 3,000 are local city stations) (1997)

Televisions: 400 million (1997)

Internet country code: .cn

Internet hosts: 160,421 (2003)

Internet Service Providers (ISPs): 3 (2000)

Internet users: 94 million (2004)

Transportation Top
Railways: total: 71,898 km
standard gauge: 71,898 km 1.435-m gauge (18,115 km electrified)
dual gauge: 23,945 km (multiple track not included in total) (2002)

Highways: total: 1,765,222 km
paved: 395,410 km (with at least 25,130 km of expressways)
unpaved: 1,369,812 km (2002 est.)

Waterways: 121,557 km (2002)

Pipelines: gas 15,890 km; oil 14,478 km; refined products 3,280 km (2004)

Ports and harbors: Dalian, Guangzhou, Nanjing, Ningbo, Qingdao, Qinhuangdao, Shanghai

Merchant marine: total: 1,649 ships (1,000 GRT or over) 18,724,653 GRT/27,749,784 DWT
by type: barge carrier 2, bulk carrier 362, cargo 696, chemical tanker 38, combination ore/oil 1, container 135, liquefied gas 30, passenger 7, passenger/cargo 81, petroleum tanker 246, refrigerated cargo 30, roll on/roll off 11, vehicle carrier 10
foreign-owned: 9 (Hong Kong 4, Japan 2, South Korea 2, United States 1)
registered in other countries: 872 (2005)

Airports: 472 (2004 est.)

Airports - with paved runways: total: 383
over 3,047 m: 53
2,438 to 3,047 m: 116
1,524 to 2,437 m: 141
914 to 1,523 m: 23
under 914 m: 50 (2004 est.)

Airports - with unpaved runways: total: 89
over 3,047 m: 5
2,438 to 3,047 m: 4
1,524 to 2,437 m: 13
914 to 1,523 m: 32
under 914 m: 35 (2004 est.)

Heliports: 15 (2004 est.)

Military Top
Military branches: People's Liberation Army (PLA): Ground Forces, Navy (includes marines and naval aviation), Air Force (includes Airborne Forces), and II Artillery Corps (strategic missile force); People's Armed Police Force (internal security troops considered to be an adjunct to the PLA); Militia (2003)

Military manpower - military age and obligation: 18-22 years of age for compulsory military service, with 24-month service obligation; no minimum age for voluntary service; 17 years of age for women who meet requirements for specific military jobs (2004)

Military manpower - availability: males age 18-49: 342,956,265 (2005 est.)

Military manpower - fit for military service: males age 18-49: 281,240,272 (2005 est.)

Military manpower - reaching military age annually: males: 13,186,433 (2005 est.)

Military expenditures - dollar figure: $67.49 billion (2004)

Military expenditures - percent of GDP: 4.3% (2004)

Transnational Issues Top
Disputes - international: in 2005, China and India initiate drafting principles to resolve all aspects of their extensive boundary and territorial disputes together with a security and foreign policy dialogue to consolidate discussions related to the boundary, regional nuclear proliferation, and other matters; recent talks and confidence-building measures have begun to defuse tensions over Kashmir, site of the world's largest and most militarized territorial dispute with portions under the de facto administration of China (Aksai Chin), India (Jammu and Kashmir), and Pakistan (Azad Kashmir and Northern Areas); India does not recognize Pakistan's ceding historic Kashmir lands to China in 1964; about 90,000 ethnic Tibetan exiles reside primarily in India as well as Nepal and Bhutan; China asserts sovereignty over the Spratly Islands together with Malaysia, Philippines, Taiwan, Vietnam, and possibly Brunei; the 2002 "Declaration on the Conduct of Parties in the South China Sea" has eased tensions in the Spratlys but is not the legally binding "code of conduct" sought by some parties; in March 2005, the national oil companies of China, the Philippines, and Vietnam signed a joint accord on marine seismic activities in the Spratly Islands; China occupies some of the Paracel Islands also claimed by Vietnam and Taiwan; China and Taiwan have become more vocal in rejecting both Japan's claims to the uninhabited islands of Senkaku-shoto (Diaoyu Tai) and Japan's unilaterally declared exclusive economic zone in the East China Sea, the site of intensive hydrocarbon prospecting; certain islands in the Yalu and Tumen rivers are in an uncontested dispute with North Korea and a section of boundary around Mount Paektu is considered indefinite; China seeks to stem illegal migration of tens of thousands of North Koreans; in 2004, China and Russia divided up the islands in the Amur, Ussuri, and Argun Rivers, ending a century-old border dispute; demarcation of the China-Vietnam boundary proceeds slowly and although the maritime boundary delimitation and fisheries agreements were ratified in June 2004, implementation has been delayed; environmentalists in Burma and Thailand remain concerned about China's construction of hydroelectric dams upstream on the Nujiang/Salween River in Yunnan Province

Refugees and internally displaced persons:: refugees (country of origin): 299,287 (Vietnam) estimated 30,000-50,000 (North Korea) (2004)

Illicit drugs: major transshipment point for heroin produced in the Golden Triangle; growing domestic drug abuse problem; source country for chemical precursors and methamphetamine

Friday, August 18, 2006

Top 10 "Amy'ism's"...

Here are the top 10 quirky things that make me, ME:

1. I have to CONSTANTLY have water with me 24/7, no exceptions.

2. I sleep only on my left side or my back. (Stomache hurts too much from track marks due to MS injections & right side, dunno... just never liked it, ever.)

3. I sleep with my bear, William Bear EVERY NIGHT NO EXCEPTIONS, yes, that means he goes WITH ME wherever I go... Cayman Islands, brought him, Florida, brought him, Road trips anywhere, BRING HIM... Reason being, he sleeps either dead center of my chest (that sleeping on the side business is comfy until gravity tries to intervene... that's where William comes in...) and if I'm on my back, he doubles as a toasty pillow. Yes I'm 34, and yes I still have my childhood bear. GET OVER IT!

4. My room has to ALWYAS be COLD, summer = AC, winter = cracked window, if the room isn't cold, I can't sleep. I need to want to curl up all 'nest style' under the covers or I can't sleep. You people who can sleep with just a sheet in the summer or with NOTHING? HEAVEN FORBID! Never understood you folks...

5. If someone touches me on one side of my body but NOT the other side, IT FREAKS ME OUT, CUZ I'M TOTALLY UNEVEN! If they don't 'even' me out once I insist, I have to do it myself... NO LIE!

6. I always have either an elastic or a hair clip with me so I can pull it up off my face. I don't mind the long hair but I DO MIND IT attacking my FACE! That's OUT!

7. Every morning, without fail, I normally have Tea & some form of toast, be it actual bread, or an english muffin, or a bagel etc... creature of habit, what can I say.

8. I only use Bath & Body works lotions in lieu of perfume's... always found that perfume's are a bit too strong for my liking, where as those lotions are so yummy & subtle smelling, that it works to your advantage... if the guy you're with wants to smell how good you smell, he's got no choice but to get CLOSER. *wink*

9. I use my good china every day, I DON'T DO PAPER PLATES! My mom is a big fan of them & that's ok for her but I don't see why good china can't be used EVERY DAY. When people say " Oh I have nice stuff but I'm saving it for a special occasion... " that just never made sense to me. You know what, I woke up this morning, I'm breathing, I'm happy, I'm healthy, I have a beautiful little girl singing happily in her crib to Bear, IT'S A SPECIAL OCCASION IN MY BOOK! Break out the nice dishes & ENJOY!

10. I've only EVER driven STICK SHIFTS, NEVER ONCE owned an automatic! (ugh... perrish the thought!) When I drive a car I like to know I'm the one in control, not the other way around thank you very much...

Now, I'm leaving this an OPEN TAG to all who read my blog... I challenge you all to come up with your 10 you'isms that make you YOU! Don't dissappoint now.... I'll be reading!

UNCLE STEVE ROCKS!!!

CLICK ME! <------FOR DOING THIS!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

We love you!

-Amy & Ruby Cate (& Bear too!)

Ruby Red...

... so I'm sure you've noticed the new look of the blog. My 'spring colors' theme, although cute, was getting slightly old, as it is the tail end of summer & my FAVORITE SEASON is nearly upon us... FALL!
So, I figured what better way to welcome my favorite time of year than with a glorious color change!
(Ruby Red of course...)

You may also have noticed that I downsized my links as well, if you find that yours has dissappeared from this list please do not TAKE OFFENSE to this as I still read those blogs EVERY DAY (they're permanently in my favorites on my browser...) and was just trying to streamline the look of my blog.
If I only post once in a day, it just looked silly to me to have this little 'post' at the top & then several miles of nothing but links as far as the eye can see.

The ones I kept were ones that I may read several times a day, because I'm silly like that.
Not necessarily a stalker, but more a passionate voyer with a need for a fix. ;)

I assure you that everyone who was on my blog before, just because you don't see your link there anymore, doesn't mean that I don't check in daily with your blogs.
*here's the thing, once addicted to blogs, ALWAYS addicted to blogs!*

Now, that said, I hope you all enjoy the new look.
Oh, and I also got rid of the Ebenezer virtual puppy & some of my own links that I had up, like 'Flat Ruby Cate' & 'Flat Bear' etc... so see, even my stuff dissappeared. I just kinda like the look of 'less is more' to be honest.

If only I had photoshop so I can color ONLY the bow in Ruby's hair in the header pic, I'd love for the whole thing to be B&W and have that PUNCH of RED stand out through the bow in her hair. Perhaps my good friend Karen *cough, cough, hint, hint* might be able to lend a hand with that sometime soon. *grin*

Ok, nuff babbling for now, I'm headed to bed... g'night all, sweet dreams!

XoXoXo

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Momma's friend Matty...


... is LOTS of fun!


He came over tonight for a visit...

... and it was the first time I had met him even though he had seen lots of my pictures.


Momma says I'm a big flirt...


... but can ya blame me? I'M CUTE!
hehehehehe

(and Matty didn't seem to mind either,
he told Momma that I was adorable & he would be CORRECT!)

Nine months ago today...


... I landed in Beijing China with my friend Ronayne (Ruby's Auntie Nayne), and didn't know WHAT to expect. I just kept thinking to myself "holy shit, I'm seriously here, I'm IN CHINA!"
No more 'dreaming about it', no more 'talking about it', no more 'waiting for it' ,
WE WERE THERE!
I WAS THERE!
We were standing with the other 14 families that made up my travel group as we waited for the bus to come get us & take us to our hotel, and I just felt like I was in a dream & perhaps someone was going to wake me up any moment.
You guys think the 'wait' is long, trust me when I tell you that the TRAVEL feels longer than any wait you've ever had to endure. One plane, then another plane, then a layover, then another plane, then more waiting then another plane etc... it takes everything you can muster to get there without losing your mind, I promise you that.
And don't get me wrong, I was psyched to finally be there, but at that moment of touchdown, after 30+ hours of straight travel, all I wanted was a BED! It didn't matter what hotel, hell I'd have even curled up on a bed that a kind man on a street corner offered me to be perfectly honest with you, I was tired, I was spent, I was emotionally drained & it hadn't even truly begun yet.
For those of you who know me, you know that I
HATE!
TO!
FLY!

Now, those of you who don't know me personally also are privvy to this tidbit of personal info, I really REALLY would much rather take a road trip ANYWHERE than take a plane.
Since that wasn't possible with China, I did what I had to do... after all, I had this cute little chubby cheeked angel waiting for me, I was going regardless of HOW MANY planes I had to get my butt on, Ruby, Momma's coming baby!



We left Boston on wed nov 16th, arrived Beijing thurs nov 17th & toured for the 18th, 19th & then flew to Ruby's province the 20th.
When I tell you that like a BAZILLION things were packed into those two days leading up to going to Jiangxi... I am not over exaggerating!



We saw the great wall, the pearl place, the jade place, the clossionne place, tienamen square, the summer palace, the this, the that... etc, etc, etc...

I JUST WANTED MY BABY!

Oh, and what they tell you about the beds in china, oh it's true. Like sleeping on a big stone block with MAYBE one teenie feather under your tush... thankfully for me God has provided me with my own personal padding that travels well, so bring on the cement beds, made no difference to this Italian girl, I was comfy. LOL

We landed in Jiangxi and my first thought was,
"OMG, I'm going to see Ruby today, HOLY SHIT!"
We piled all 14 families onto another bus with our guide & headed to the hotel we were to stay at.
My first impression of my daughters birthplace was, that it was really polluted.
It made me sad.
I mean REALLY POLLUTED, as in the air quality was so bad that within an hour or so of being there, I lost my voice & sounded like a frog.
Hmmm, maybe that's why Ruby cried when we first were united, wouldn't you?
Some lady you don't know from adam picks you up & sounds like something out of a horror movie? Nice... it's ok baby, cry it out... once you get over my horrible voice you'll see that I am also the lady with the TOYS and the BEAR and the SILLY ANTICS that would eventually (45 minutes after meeting) bring you not only out of your shell shock but produce the most glorious smile I've ever seen.

I know that today isn't the 9month anniversary of the day Ruby & I met but more the day the journey began, but I am going to share a photo with you all that I simply love! And I'm sure I may have shared this already in the past on the blog but I'm sharing it again because it's the moment after Ruby she knew she could trust me, after she knew I was going to care for her & not harm her, after I had peeled off the thousand & one layers of clothing she had on her only to put on a sweet little yellow sweatsuit that her Nanna bought for her...
... it was her first moment with Bear and she held him lovingly as if to say,
"We both get new Momma's today pal, and I'm yours..."
She was still a little guarded, I know,
but she somehow just knew that everything was going to be ok.

The shirt underneath the yellow guy was the shirt she came to me wearing, it was the bottom most layer of clothing and it was such a traumatic event taking all the other layers off her, that once I reached the shirt, I let it be & just put on her sweatsuit.
She's holding one of those 'sassy self feeder' spoons and a little ball that I bought for her.
She now uses the spoons to feed herself & never drops a bite!
The ball she still plays with but mostly the twins now enjoy it because of it's holes & ease in grabbing & holding on, even for small hands.
And we all know the love affair that happened between my daughter & that Bear of hers.
Those two are NEVER APART!
Just like her & I... it's a good fit.
It just works.
And I'm happy to announce that we're ALL IN LOVE!

Man that's a good feeling...
*smiling*

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Why I prefer MBE over USPS...


... at M.B.E.: they are kind, they are nice, they are friendly, they smile at you, they know you came out of your way to give them your business and are aware that you'll be paying extra for the convienence of their help, but they also know that you keep their business thriving, so they LOVE you coming in.

... at the USPS: they are rude, they are ignorant, they are disinterested, they are of NO HELP, they demean you, they ignore you, they don't want to be there, they hate their jobs & most likely hate you at the moment of your visit.

Today, Ruby & I went to mail a package to a friend. I was very happy to do this as we adore this friend & can't wait for her to receive her surprise that our OTHER friend so lovingly & graciously picked out & planned so as to surprise her.
I am all for a surprise... so off we go to mail it.

Now NORMALLY I ALWAYS go to MBE, but today I thought, just once, let's go to the post office since it's closer, it's getting close to dinner time & I wanted some buffer time to be able to bring Ruby to the children's room at the local library.

So, here's today's lesson boys & girls:

NEVER DEVIATE FROM THE PLAN!

Ever.

The line was long, ok... so theres a long line, we can handle this, we've waited together through MUCH WORSE than this, my daughter & me.
I am NOT joking when I say I have NEVER mailed anything from the post office, period.
Having been a nanny now for as long as I have I hardly EVER was out on an errand solo, more like with several short people in tow, thus the need for some friendly assistance & help when it counts.
So... we make our way to the front of the line with said gift to be mailed. I put Ruby up on the counter in front of me & hand mister 'GRUMPYASS' the gift & show him an address & say, very pleasantly:
"Hi, I'd like to mail this gift to this address please..."

GRUMPYASS looks at me with disgust & says:
"well what do you want me to do about it? I'm not going to wrap that for you and you're not even ready yet, move aside please... NEXT!"

I looked at him & said OUT LOUD for the ENTIRE LINE TO HEAR ME:
"Excuse me but I am BEYOND APPAULED AT YOUR ATTITUDE WITH ME... I am a PAYING CUSTOMER and I have not ever ONCE used the post office to mail anything, I normally go to MAIL BOXES ETC and PAY the extra amount for FRIENDLIER, MORE HELPFUL SERVICE!
I'm sorry if you've had a rough day but I'm going to guess you've never ONCE had to do anything with a toddler in tow... AND you never ONCE asked if you could HELP ME, which is, I'm pretty sure, WHAT YOU'RE HERE FOR SINCE YOU'RE BEHIND THE COUNTER
& I'M THE ONE OUT HERE WITH MONEY IN HAND...
Whatever happened to customer service? Not everyone knows the protocall to how things get done in here & YOU should be the FIRST PERSON to OFFER HELP!"

By now, everyone in line was not only looking for obvious reasons, but more to the point, looking frightened of me...

(ask me if I care?)

Me: "Now, if you don't mind, I'll go over and FIGURE IT OUT MYSELF and if you THINK for ONE SECOND that I'm going to make my child get back into that long line & wait a SECOND TIME to end up right back HERE again with the likes of YOU, YOU ARE SORELY MISTAKEN! I will wrap this package and I will march myself RIGHT BACK UP HERE & YOU WILL MAIL MY PACKAGE and I will also need your NAME SIR because I'm pretty sure it's not what I'm now referring to you as in my HEAD, and I'd like the name of your superior as well!"

GRUMPYASS didn't have a clue what to say in response to that... he merely looked at me & rolled his eyes, to which (had I had my nice big wooden italian spoon handy in my purse) I'd have KNOCKED THOSE EYES RIGHT OUT OF HIS ABNORMALLY SMALL HEAD, but since I DIDN'T have that wooden spoon with me, I managed to give him the Italian 'EVIL EYE'.
(works every time, don't doubt it!)

So, I mail the package & it's on it's way to our friend who I hope will be happily surprised with it's contents... just knowing that she'll be happy was worth a DOZEN GRUMPYASSES!
I'd do it again for her in a heart beat.

(and yes I got his name & yes I'm going to be calling first thing in the morning & NO I'll never ever go back there for anything, EVER!)

MBE for me, thanks.

*To those of you who work or know of someone who works at the USPS, my sincerest apologies as I'm sure that not everyone conducts themselves as GRUMPYASS did today but one bad experience can leave an even WORSE taste in the customers mouth, thus my venting here & my choice to NEVER bring my business back there, period.*

A GREAT read...

... so I've blogged about this BOOK before,
apparently now it has it's own BLOG!

One of the many blogs you'll find inside, is:

PostSecret
PostSecret is an artistic project that encourages people to mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a homemade postcard.

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My next tattoo...?


Judging by my last serious relationship I was involved in,
my skills to find a decent, well rounded man were apparently nonexistant... LOL
Perhaps I should have this little number turned into a tattoo & have it smack in the center of my forehead!
Any thoughts?